Theresa T. Okafor (nee Policano)

With heavy hearts, we remember and celebrate the life of Theresa “Tessy” Okafor, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, who passed peacefully on October 28th, 2024. She was born on November 17, 1966 in Brooklyn, New York. 

 Tessy enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren, making memories and cooking for her family; she was well known for her lasagna and rigatoni which was a family favorite during the Christmas holiday. She was affectionately called “Chef Tess” by friends and colleagues. She was known for always being herself & always straight to the point & that’s what people loved about her the most! 

 Her generous spirit and cherished memories will continue to live on through her family and friends! She will be greatly missed by so many who loved her deeply! Tessy’s memory and spirit will live on through them all.

 She is preceded in death by her mother, Katherine Policano, and her two sisters and brother. Tessy leaves behind her devoted husband of 36 years- Alexander; her three children, Chibuzo, Ijeoma (Ricardo), and Ameche; six beautiful grandchildren who she loved dearly - Aaliyah, Alivia, Ricky, Elias, Kaysen, and Raziel, her siblings, many nieces, nephews, and loved ones.

 A funeral service mass will be held Friday November 22, 2024 at St. Vivian Catholic Church at 10:30AM. Friends and family can gather before mass at 9:30AM. Mass will be officiated by Father Ron Haft.

“Heavenly Father, we entrust Tessy to your eternal embrace. Thank you for the love, joy, and wisdom she brought into our lives. May her soul find peace in your presence, and may we feel her love guiding us each day. Surround us with your comfort as we cherish her memory. Amen.”